

Where one begins with some things are beyond me. Perhaps its because the possibilities seem endless, or perhaps its because I hardly believe it myself. This post is about another 50 km race I ran, but its really less about the race, and more about something that doesn't happen often and to some ever.
I had signed up for Bimblers bluff 50 km in CT just after I finished the pisgah 50 km. I had a plan to do a long race each month to get me into shape for
next year. I had been planning
on running this one alone without my padre. But things serendipitously changed. A few weeks before I went on a short hike with an old friend whom I had grown up with. I hadnt seen him in years. The hike was short, but within hours something had happened. Im not one to get all crazy sentimental, so Ill just tell it the way it happened. Something happened, I cant describe what without getting all cliche so I will just leave it relatively amorphous and up to your imagination. From then on we hung out all weekend, every weekend. The week before the race Ben tells me he has signed up for the race. Now, I consider myself relatively crazy or adventurous, but this was just plain wildly badass. Ben had never run a 50 km before. In fact Ben was not really a runner at all. Dont get me wrong he is in great shape, but he had never even run over 10 miles before this race. I rate this raw badassness right up with people who run these things barefoot or in sandals. Anyways, his motives were two fold, a personal challenge for his self, and also to impress and spend time with me. To say I was impressed is a gross understatement. I did also have a great deal of concern about his life as well, but I was so happy that I would get to spend another weekend with him I tried not to worry about killing him. We ate our left over jalapeno pizza from the night before and took off on our latest adventure. The first 10 miles were easy and him and I fell into a nice rhythm and predictably great conversation. It was so nice to be out there sharing it with him and enjoying all the other incredible people out there. I loved the reactions people had when Ben told them the story. The next section there was the climb up the bluff. The view was great and I couldnt have been happier to have been running and sharing that beautiful trail with Ben. We chatted our way along as we circumvented the ridge, and made our way down to the next aid station where we feasted upon the best food we could have asked for! Kelly, Bens friend was there waiting for us with a smile, encouragement, and more food! It was so great to have her there, and off we went again into the woods. At this point we are about half way through with the race and Ben still looks great, as the race goes on I become more and more impressed. We reach the next aid station, with 10 miles left to go, and Kelly there waiting for us again. The last 10 miles are always tough, but end was in site. We were both out of water, and the next station seemed to have been moved on some sick accord. The rocks seemed harder as our feet became more and more tired, our legs feeling more like a machine, one after another. But we were still happy to be with one another. I knew then we could spend our lives together. I also knew if he was going to run 50 km whimsically for me, that he was indeed my soul-mate.We got married 4 months later!






